static void Main() {
  AppDomain.CurrentDomain.AssemblyResolve += CurrentDomain_AssemblyResolve;
  ...
}

private static Assembly CurrentDomain_AssemblyResolve(object sender, ResolveEventArgs e) {
  if(e.Name.StartsWith("Kjs.AppLife.Update.Controller", StringComparison.Ordinal)) {
    using(Stream inputStream = typeof(Program).Assembly.GetManifestResourceStream("YOURASSEMBLYNAME.Kjs.AppLife.Update.Controller.dll")) {
      using(BinaryReader reader = new BinaryReader(inputStream)) {
        return Assembly.Load(reader.ReadBytes((int)inputStream.Length));
        }
      }
    }

    return null;
}

Imports System.IO
Imports System.Reflection

Public Class Form1
  Private WithEvents mAppDomain As AppDomain = AppDomain.CurrentDomain
  ...

  Private Function mAppDomain_AssemblyResolve(ByVal sender As Object, ByVal args As System.ResolveEventArgs) As System.Reflection.Assembly Handles mAppDomain.AssemblyResolve
    If args.Name.StartsWith("Kjs.AppLife.Update.Controller", StringComparison.Ordinal) Then
      Using inputStream As Stream = Assembly.GetExecutingAssembly().GetManifestResourceStream("Simple.Kjs.AppLife.Update.Controller.dll")
        Using reader As BinaryReader = New BinaryReader(inputStream)
          Return Assembly.Load(reader.ReadBytes(CType(inputStream.Length, Int32)))
        End Using
      End Using
    End If
    Return Nothing
  End Function
End Class